{"id":1335,"date":"2011-01-21T00:00:52","date_gmt":"2011-01-21T00:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.com\/?p=1335"},"modified":"2011-01-21T00:00:52","modified_gmt":"2011-01-21T00:00:52","slug":"the_third_party","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=1335","title":{"rendered":"The Third Party"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><big>\u5728\u611b\u60c5\u7684\u4e16\u754c\u91cc\uff0c \u4e0d\u88ab\u611b\u7684\u624d\u662f\u7b2c\u4e09\u8005\u3002<\/big><br \/>\nWhen it comes to love, the third party is the one who isn&#8217;t loved.<br \/>\n<small><br \/>\n~ \u7280\u5229\u4eba\u59bb\u7b2c10\u96c6\u8cbc\u58eb  <i>The Fierce Wife, Episode 10<\/i><\/small><br \/>\nI came across the quote (that&#8217;s my English translation) while watching episode 10 of Taiwanese idol drama <i>The Fierce Wife<\/i> and thought it offered some food for thought.<br \/>\nIs it right to say that it doesn&#8217;t matter who came first? What if the second was THE ONE? Is there such a thing as &#8216;responsibility&#8217; towards the one who came first?<br \/>\nI say it&#8217;s best to let the person go if his\/her heart isn&#8217;t with you any more. There&#8217;s no point hanging on to someone if he\/she is with you out of obligation or a sense of responsibility. It&#8217;s like two birds trapped in a cage. Why not set the two of you free and go on to soar on your journeys? I think that&#8217;s a better solution than being with someone who doesn&#8217;t love you, no?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u5728\u611b\u60c5\u7684\u4e16\u754c\u91cc\uff0c \u4e0d\u88ab\u611b\u7684\u624d\u662f\u7b2c\u4e09\u8005\u3002 When it comes to love, the third party is the one who isn&#8217;t loved. ~ \u7280\u5229\u4eba\u59bb\u7b2c10\u96c6\u8cbc\u58eb The Fierce Wife, Episode 10 I came across the quote (that&#8217;s my English translation) while watching episode 10 of Taiwanese idol drama &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=1335\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1335","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-musings-mullings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1335","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1335"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1335\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1335"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1335"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1335"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}