{"id":1375,"date":"2011-08-16T00:26:13","date_gmt":"2011-08-16T00:26:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.com\/?p=1375"},"modified":"2011-08-16T00:26:13","modified_gmt":"2011-08-16T00:26:13","slug":"flatmate_no_thank_you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=1375","title":{"rendered":"Flatmate? No, thank you."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last night, my friend whatsapped me and asked if I would consider sharing my flat. My friend was asking around for her friend, a 20-something girl from HK who had just returned from the UK and was looking to rent a room.<br \/>\nMy answer? An outright &#8216;Unfortunately no&#8217;. Nothing personal of course, it&#8217;s just that I&#8217;m way past the age of having flatmates. Flat-sharing is the stuff of undergrads and the 20-somethings. Please don&#8217;t ask this set-in-her-ways 32-year-old to flat-share anymore. I love having this flat I&#8217;m in all to myself. And besides, my spare room is for my visitors and the third bedroom (a tiny tiny one) is used as a storeroom for all my stuff.<br \/>\nYes, I have two bathrooms, but I still make use of both all the same. OK, the fridge is only 1\/3 filled but at least I don&#8217;t have to label my food. I don&#8217;t have to bother about splitting household chores; I clean whenever I want (which is pretty often may I add). While I know having a flatmate can reduce the amount I pay on rent, I&#8217;d rather pay more than have to share the small flat with someone else. I mean who knows what people this 20-something will bring home? Or what bizarre habits she might have??<br \/>\nI&#8217;ve heard too many flatmate horror stories to want to share a flat with someone else while I can still afford to have my own place. I&#8217;ve already decided that unless the person(s) is family or my partner\/husband, I&#8217;m never going to live with anyone else as long as I&#8217;m in HK. It&#8217;s just way too difficult. The thing about HK is that because flats are so small, you&#8217;re going to get in the other person&#8217;s way no matter what.<br \/>\nSo yeah, definitely won&#8217;t be having a flatmate in HK!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last night, my friend whatsapped me and asked if I would consider sharing my flat. My friend was asking around for her friend, a 20-something girl from HK who had just returned from the UK and was looking to rent &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=1375\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-musings-mullings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1375","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1375"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1375\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}