{"id":1660,"date":"2012-07-30T22:45:07","date_gmt":"2012-07-30T14:45:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.com\/?p=1660"},"modified":"2012-07-30T22:47:18","modified_gmt":"2012-07-30T14:47:18","slug":"salve-for-broken-hearts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=1660","title":{"rendered":"Salve for Broken Hearts"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #993300;\">&#8220;Instead of loving someone you can\u2019t be with, fictionalize them. Reimagine your encounters as dreams: the kind you wake up from, shake off, disregard; not the kind you journal, analyze, relay relentlessly to bored friends&#8230;Maybe you\u2019re unsure because you\u2019ve already invested your thoughts and feelings elsewhere without yielding any profit or interest; maybe you feel safer holding on to what\u2019s already failed because that failure is familiar and comfortable and you wear it so well. But maybe \u2014 and this is just another suggestion \u2014 maybe you can try again, instead of loving someone you can\u2019t be with.&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>For those of you experiencing or have experienced unrequited love, or are nursing a broken heart, surf over to read the whole <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/2012\/what-you-can-do-instead-of-loving-someone-you-cant-be-with\/\">article<\/a><\/strong> from the <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/\">Thought Catalog<\/a><\/strong>. I guarantee it will make you feel just that wee bit better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Instead of loving someone you can\u2019t be with, fictionalize them. Reimagine your encounters as dreams: the kind you wake up from, shake off, disregard; not the kind you journal, analyze, relay relentlessly to bored friends&#8230;Maybe you\u2019re unsure because you\u2019ve already &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=1660\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[24,25,23],"class_list":["post-1660","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books-literature-writings","tag-breakup","tag-love","tag-relationships"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1660","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1660"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1660\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1662,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1660\/revisions\/1662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1660"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1660"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1660"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}