{"id":2058,"date":"2013-03-13T15:47:46","date_gmt":"2013-03-13T07:47:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.com\/?p=2058"},"modified":"2013-03-31T08:04:15","modified_gmt":"2013-03-31T00:04:15","slug":"facebook-facade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=2058","title":{"rendered":"Facebook Facade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you fall for the Facebook facade? I do. Often. Everyone I know seems to have life all figured out &#8211; my FB newsfeed is filled with update statuses and pictures of friends on holiday, or them indulging in a decadent meal, or them acting lovey dovey with their significant other. You get the idea.<\/p>\n<p>I guess another reason I&#8217;m cutting down on my use of FB is that I don&#8217;t want to be reminded of how I have yet to figure things out. How did life end up like that, dammit. Growing up, in my childhood and teenage innocence, I had thought having a fulfilling career and finding love would just fall into place eventually &#8211; that they were a given. Little did I know then that it&#8217;d be so difficult.   <\/p>\n<p>However, I do realise that what we see on the surface isn&#8217;t always a true reflection of the situation. People only show the best parts of themselves on FB (but again, I don&#8217;t need to know every single detail&#8230;some people are just TMI), and the struggles they face in life are often left out.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, in the whole scheme of things, my life isn&#8217;t THAT bad. Although I know I shouldn&#8217;t compare with others, it&#8217;s hard not to. Anyway, I just have to keep reminding myself to count my blessings and make the best of what I&#8217;ve got.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you fall for the Facebook facade? I do. Often. Everyone I know seems to have life all figured out &#8211; my FB newsfeed is filled with update statuses and pictures of friends on holiday, or them indulging in a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=2058\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[81,77,29],"class_list":["post-2058","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-musings-mullings","tag-facade","tag-facebook","tag-life"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2058","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2058"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2058\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2136,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2058\/revisions\/2136"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2058"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2058"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2058"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}