{"id":2453,"date":"2013-11-14T13:36:00","date_gmt":"2013-11-14T05:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.com\/?p=2453"},"modified":"2013-11-14T15:17:15","modified_gmt":"2013-11-14T07:17:15","slug":"35-reflections-of-a-35-year-old-birthday-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=2453","title":{"rendered":"35 Reflections of a 35-year-old Birthday Girl"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. Omg, I&#8217;m officially in my mid 30s! *faint*<\/p>\n<p>2. Note to self: have to alter blog bio and perhaps change blog URL to dimsumauntie. <\/p>\n<p>3. Family will always be priority and I&#8217;m thankful for mine! <\/p>\n<p>4. I never thought I&#8217;d be single and (very) available at 35. Growing up, I remember thinking I&#8217;d be married at 28 and have two kids by about 32. Reality couldn&#8217;t be more different. The closest I am to that is having two tiny pet fish in my flat, which may just die of starvation when I&#8217;m away on holiday. \ud83d\ude10<\/p>\n<p>5. Love comes easier to some than others. Perhaps some of us are just not meant to have a significant other. <\/p>\n<p>6. Anyone can have a job but not everyone can have a career. <\/p>\n<p>7. I still don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;m doing with my life. <\/p>\n<p>8. Life can really suck at times but it does have its bright moments too. <\/p>\n<p>9. Life is unfair; you can only hope that you are dealt a better stack of cards. But at the end of the day, you just gotta make the best play of the deck you get. <\/p>\n<p>10. Studying mass communications in university was useless. Complete waste of time. <\/p>\n<p>11. I&#8217;m afraid of the future; that I&#8217;ll never be able to retire and have to end up scraping out a living by working as a McDonald&#8217;s auntie in old age. <\/p>\n<p>12. Sadly, there is a high probability that I&#8217;ll never be a mother. <\/p>\n<p>13. I&#8217;m quite glad to note that I&#8217;m fitter than most people younger than me.<\/p>\n<p>14. I have travelled on my own and survived!<\/p>\n<p>15. I&#8217;m proud of myself for having the courage to up and leave the security of home to live and work in London and Hong Kong. <\/p>\n<p>16. Though I have made certain bad decisions in terms of jobs, looking back, I think I needed to do what I did to arrive at where I am now. At least I can say I have tried and learnt certain life lessons through the mistakes. <\/p>\n<p>17. It&#8217;s great to have girlfriends!!! I&#8217;m glad I&#8217;m still in contact with friends from my primary, secondary, junior college, and university days as well as a few ex-colleagues who have become friends. Through sports, I have also made some really good friends and I&#8217;m thankful for my friendships.<\/p>\n<p>18. I&#8217;ll never be thin or slim and I&#8217;ll always have a tummy. I love food too much and I&#8217;m just the kind who has curves. <\/p>\n<p>19. Ambition isn&#8217;t my strongest suit &#8211; I don&#8217;t aspire to be the next female CEO, but I do like to feel I&#8217;m moving forward by learning new stuff and hopefully earning more money as I go along. <\/p>\n<p>20. I secretly wish &#8211; not such a secret anymore now that I&#8217;m making it known &#8211; I were a small-time farmer who survives by living off my own plot of land which I&#8217;ll work on my own. Well, I&#8217;d like some modern conveniences like running tap water, electricity and the internet too. <\/p>\n<p>21. My dream home is one by the sea; I already know how I&#8217;d like my home to be furnished. <\/p>\n<p>22. I&#8217;m always going to be an introvert and am never going to be good at small talk. <\/p>\n<p>23. I don&#8217;t like schmoozing and am uncomfortable in situations where I&#8217;m required to do so. <\/p>\n<p>24. I&#8217;m never going to be the sweet as sugar kind of girl. Cannot act sweet or cute for the life of me. <\/p>\n<p>25. I&#8217;m really enjoying being in school again even though I&#8217;m the old bird in the flock. <\/p>\n<p>26. Working and studying at the same time is tough, but rewarding. <\/p>\n<p>27. It&#8217;s important to feed yourself well. <\/p>\n<p>28. If I knew then what I know now, I&#8217;d make very different choices in life. <\/p>\n<p>29. My dream job would be a travel writer specialising in healthy food, spas and nature spots around the world. <\/p>\n<p>30. It&#8217;s nice to have my family and friends around the world wishing me happy birthday. I feel loved!<\/p>\n<p>31. I&#8217;m never going to like olives or raisins. <\/p>\n<p>32. In my past life I might have been a chef. <\/p>\n<p>33. I am still afflicted by the travel bug. <\/p>\n<p>34. I&#8217;m more confident and more sure of myself than when I was in my 20s. Hurray! <\/p>\n<p>35. What&#8217;s coming up next in life?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Omg, I&#8217;m officially in my mid 30s! *faint* 2. Note to self: have to alter blog bio and perhaps change blog URL to dimsumauntie. 3. Family will always be priority and I&#8217;m thankful for mine! 4. 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