{"id":3153,"date":"2015-04-21T00:29:21","date_gmt":"2015-04-20T16:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.com\/?p=3153"},"modified":"2015-04-20T15:01:00","modified_gmt":"2015-04-20T07:01:00","slug":"r-for-regrets","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=3153","title":{"rendered":"R for Regrets"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Regrets, I&#8217;ve had a few;<br \/>\nBut then again, too few to mention.<br \/>\nI did what I had to do<br \/>\nAnd saw it through without exemption.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>~ <em>My Way<\/em>, Frank Sinatra<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Shoulda, Woulda, and Coulda \u2013 all pointless words which boil down to regret. But all three forms have pertained to my life before and will probably continue to do so, although I will do my best to minimise their occurrences. I love the lyrics to the Frank Sinatra classic, &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.lyricsfreak.com\/f\/frank+sinatra\/my+way_20056378.html\">My Way<\/a>&#8220;. When I face my final curtain, I want to be able to say I have lived a full life and have had few regrets.<\/p>\n<p>Recently, I learnt that the condition of a friend diagnosed with cancer three years ago has worsened and has been transferred to a hospice. He is only about three years older than I am.\u00a0This\u00a0is\u00a0sobering news and really made me take a step back and re-adjust perspectives.<\/p>\n<p>Life\u00a0really is unpredictable. If you were told you only had a little more time\u00a0left on this planet, would you have\u00a0any\u00a0or many regrets?\u00a0What&#8217;s left on your bucket list? Who\u00a0will\u00a0you most want to see?<\/p>\n<p>For the most part, I think I have tried my best to pursue the things I wanted lest I regret not doing so. Sometimes I had judged wrongly and ended up falling flat on my face. But that&#8217;s fine, I learnt some life lessons in the process and have managed to pick myself up and move on.<\/p>\n<p>So yes, regrets \u2013 keep those to a minimum!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Regrets, I&#8217;ve had a few; But then again, too few to mention. I did what I had to do And saw it through without exemption.&#8221; ~ My Way, Frank Sinatra &nbsp; Shoulda, Woulda, and Coulda \u2013 all pointless words which &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=3153\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3153","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books-literature-writings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3153","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3153"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3153\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3228,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3153\/revisions\/3228"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3153"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3153"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3153"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}