{"id":3229,"date":"2015-04-24T00:11:06","date_gmt":"2015-04-23T16:11:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.com\/?p=3229"},"modified":"2015-04-23T19:16:01","modified_gmt":"2015-04-23T11:16:01","slug":"u-for-uproot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=3229","title":{"rendered":"U for Unfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Every 5-6 months, I spring-clean my Facebook account. By that I mean going through my list of friends and unfriending ones that are people I hardly see or contact. I aim to have only a maximum of 300 people on my list. I think anything more than that is too many. And still out of this 300, I&#8217;m not even close to a quarter of them.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, this to me is a form of digital decluttering. It&#8217;s also a way of coping with status envy. Attaining nirvana I have not, so blocking out the perfect lives people present of themselves is my way of concentrating more on my inner self, free from the distractions of other people&#8217;s attainments. On my newsfeed I follow only close friends or people whom I think post interesting content. Or I follow the feeds of news sites such as The Straits Times.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>And you know what? I have found that it is actually good to have less information. Most of the time, the people you have unfriended won&#8217;t even know you have done so. Hence it&#8217;s no love lost on both sides. So really, unfriending people isn&#8217;t as bad as it sounds.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every 5-6 months, I spring-clean my Facebook account. By that I mean going through my list of friends and unfriending ones that are people I hardly see or contact. I aim to have only a maximum of 300 people on &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=3229\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3229","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-books-literature-writings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3229","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3229"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3229\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3246,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3229\/revisions\/3246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3229"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3229"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3229"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}