{"id":517,"date":"2005-03-14T08:41:52","date_gmt":"2005-03-14T08:41:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.com\/?p=517"},"modified":"2005-03-14T08:41:52","modified_gmt":"2005-03-14T08:41:52","slug":"a_womans_best_accessory","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=517","title":{"rendered":"A Woman&#8217;s Best Accessory"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What&#8217;s a woman&#8217;s best accessory? A Tiffany diamond ring? A limited edition Hermes bag? A pair of Manolo Blahniks or Jimmy Choos? A vintage Valentino gown? A Vera Wang wedding gown? Or a handsome man on the arm?<br \/>\nNone of the above, my friend, according to an article I read in an issue of <b>Her World<\/b>.<br \/>\nLet me digress a little here. I don&#8217;t buy women&#8217;s magazines and the only time I read them is when I&#8217;m at the hairdresser&#8217;s. Every time I&#8217;m there I learn something new. In fact, it was a couple of months back that I finally learned that the &#8216;swinging&#8217; isn&#8217;t quite the innocent term that was previously associated with playgrounds or the dance fad of the 1930s. And I only recently learnt of the term &#8216;Lipstick Lesbian&#8217; while flipping through a friend&#8217;s gay magazine. I know, I&#8217;m embarrassingly low on the hip quotient. I&#8217;m going to assume that everyone is higher on the hip quotient so I shan&#8217;t bother defining the two terms.<br \/>\nAnyway back to the main topic. The article I read said that the best accessory for a woman is a scruffy and unkempt-looking man &#8216;cos his scruffiness will only serve to play up her beauty and elegance. Errm, while the theory is logical, I really don&#8217;t like to go out with scruffy-looking guys.<br \/>\nThe article cited examples of local celeb couples, e.g. Jamie Yeo and Glenn Ong. But I say, pls lah, Glenn Ong is able to carry it off &#8216;cos he&#8217;s got attitude and that&#8217;s the kind of public persona he projects. Not every guy can carry such a look off ok?<br \/>\nI think if a guy doesn&#8217;t make the effort to spruce up, look clean-shaven and put on some appropriate clothes befitting the occasion, it really shows a lack of bearing. Some women interviewed in the article disagree with me though. They say they don&#8217;t mind unkempt guys as if a guy is too concerned about his appearance, it is very annoying and they would even get suspicious of his sexual bias!<br \/>\nWhile I agree that men who are too vain are just a major turn-off, I still don&#8217;t quite agree on the theory that an unkempt-looking man is a woman&#8217;s best accessory. I like men clean-shaven and nicely dressed thank you very much.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What&#8217;s a woman&#8217;s best accessory? A Tiffany diamond ring? A limited edition Hermes bag? A pair of Manolo Blahniks or Jimmy Choos? A vintage Valentino gown? A Vera Wang wedding gown? Or a handsome man on the arm? None of &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/?p=517\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-musings-mullings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/517","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=517"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/517\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dimsumdolly.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}