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If Only It Were That Easy

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Yes yes, I’m still very much single and searching for Mr Right. The search now extends to Hong Kong. Haha. But to be honest, I haven’t been very earnest in my search for Mr Right. Actually, I haven’t been searching. Period. So I must admit that I don’t exactly try hard enough. WHERE and HOW do you meet people without having to go to bars and clubs????
I suppose for the rest of us who aren’t so lucky to have Mr/Miss Right fall from the sky through some serendipitous encounter, or have friends who hook you up with people, meeting people really does require some work. It’s like looking for the perfect job, dammit.
I had been chatting online to several single friends on different occasions and was saying to them that it’s lonely being in HK. But really, I feel this loneliness even in Singapore, it’s just that the feeling’s more acute in HK because I know fewer people here.
I’ve been single for far too long. While I do sometimes appreciate the ease in which I can make decisions about what I want to do without having to take into consideration someone else, I actually really want to be able to share my life with a special someone.
Monoceros and I sometimes wonder if we’re in love with the idea of being in love. Perhaps. But hey, I think there’s no shame in saying that we want to be with someone. I think it’s taken me a while to come to terms with that admission. In the not too distant past, I’d have seen that as a sign of weakness. However, I think differently now and see it as simply human nature.
So to those of us still searching for love, may the message in the picture above come true for us!

Author: DSD

Contact me: dimsumdolly@gmail.com.

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