Isn’t it ironic that in Hong Kong, one of the world’s most densely populated cities, I find myself becoming increasingly insular? I have become lazy in making an effort to make new friends. It’s because I have become comfortable in Hong Kong after six years in this city. I suppose it’s the natural progression of how it is when you move and settle into another city or country.

At first you start off enthusiastic by going out to meet new people as you basically know no one. But after awhile, you get comfortable with the circle of friends you have and are no longer motivated to make the effort to make small talk. I guess it’s also my introverted nature that prefers staying in to read my books or watch movies at home. Even my work does not require me to talk a lot. Often I’m typing away at my desk, so there are days where I could go without talking much to anyone.

It’s actually rather unhealthy, I have to admit. But how? How do I enthuse myself into being less insular?